Apparently, to my Mother In Law, that is all I am. I am not worthy of knowing the financial goings-on in my own partnership according to her. And she has the balls to go behind my back, call the lawyer that we use for our children's adoptions, and ask her (THE NERVE!) to write up papers excluding me from some of our finances. I am not going to go any further into this conversation, but let it be known that she is a witch.