Monday, March 31, 2008
Rules, rules, rules: post what you’ve got on the table (chair, nightstand, whatever) beside your bed. Leave nothing out. Nothing. Link back to the kind person who tagged you and then tag 3 other folks. Really tag them - none of this “whoever hasn’t done this meme yet” tagging.
Lets see, I have a "classic" bedside table with 2 drawers. On top is...
1. A digital, leather looking clock that I found on mega clearance at Target for $6 and change
2. A blue ceramic candle holder with a tea light candle in it
3. A blue Asian pillar candle holder with a 3x4 Biscotti scented candle on it
4. A little gold bowl in which I keep my "High Maintenance" Lip Balm (you guys HAVE to go to David and Goliath, Inc. It is the coolest shop- I mean, who else sells lip balm with names like "Chillin with My Gnomies", "Jesus is a Honkey", and "Lil' Slut"... not to mention the fact that the flavors are nummy nummy AND it does the job a great lip balm should!)... it also contains my vicks inhaler and random hair clippies and earring backs.
5. I also have our baby monitor (funny, because our baby sleeps in our bed with us...)
6. A burp cloth
7. A fictional novel called Midwives
That is everything on top... I won't go into what is INSIDE the nightstand, but I will say that the top drawer is "clean", and the bottom drawer, is, well,... "dirty"
Friday, March 28, 2008
ACK! WE ARE MOMS!!!!!
sorry, that was just a moment of reality hitting me... once again....
Thursday, March 27, 2008
Not much new stuff to report really. I am back at work (I am a waitress) 3 nights a week. It has been a little rough for me and Mindi alike. I cry every time I leave my little bundle, and Mindi is stuck with the baby alone for 4-8 hours, depending. That last part may not seem tough to anyone else that has a partner with a 9-5 job, but we are used to being together (the three of us) all the time so, well, it is different for us. If I am ever going nutso because the baby is screaming and I can't figure out why, I can usually hand him over to mindi for a few moments of sanity recuperation... and, vice versa. But, with me off serving other people besides my baby and Mindi (wink) Mindi has to fare it alone. Some nights are better than others, as would be expected.
As some of you may recall, I was doing the South Beach Diet a few weeks back. I highly recommend this diet to anyone who wants to either lose weight, or simply form better eating habits. It is really a great diet, and I have been successful at it a number of times, but for some reason, my body wasn't having it this time. I got pretty frustrated after dropping a mere 4 Lbs. over the course of 3 weeks. (Typically, 3 weeks of phase One would have had me at least 10-12 Lbs lighter). I decided, that since I REALLY want to lose weight before I get pregnant again, I would try something else. So, I ordered MediFast. It is basically a low calorie shakes and bars deal. I am beginning my third day on the diet today. I ordered the 4 week plan, and when I got the boxes of food in the mail, I basically stuck 5 mix packets together and tied them up. So now, I have this box of "food" sitting on my dining room table of little hot-cocoa looking packets in bundles. It is... interesting... You can see below, that each bundle is an entire days worth of food (minus a "lean & green" meal that I prepare myself). I really hope it works- I am getting sick of the flabbies...
We also attended our childbirth class reunion! That was fun! There were only 4 couples in the class, and one of the couples was, unfortunately, a no-show, but it was nice to meet the other 2 babies and parents! This picture is a great one showing just how short Mindi and I are. Of course, the other parents were all fairly tall, but I bet you that Harris will be as tall as the tallest guy in the picture... our donor was that tall...
I see playdates in our future...!
I figured I would add these last 2 pictures because they are darn tootin' cute!
Entitled: "The Lip"
Thursday, March 20, 2008
P.S.- for the other lesbian moms with children that have started to "talk" to you- what do your kids call the 2 of you? Mom and Mom or..... I am struggling with this one...
Tuesday, March 18, 2008
Monday, March 17, 2008
I promised a friend (hi Johnny) that I would post a picture of Harris' placenta JUST FOR HIS VIEWING PLEASURE. Then, I realized that some people may not actually want to see the placenta, being that it is an organ and all, so instead, I am posting a direct link to the "Placenta picture" on my Flickr account. If you go to my Flickr account to view the PLACENTA, please, feel free to snoop around a bit :).
CLICK HERE TO VIEW THE PLACENTA
Friday, March 14, 2008
Thursday, March 13, 2008
I am currently still waiting for my first post partum period, but I have an appointment with my Ob/Gyn on April 3rd. During that appointment, I will most likely get my annual exam, and I will also be consulting on the potential to have her jumpstart my periods. Before becoming pregnant with Harris, I was diagnosed with PCOS (poly cystic ovarian syndrome). Many of you may be familiar with it- I know ther were a few other girls that had the same problem. PCOS basically screws up ovulation and cycles. She may, once again, give me an Rx for Metformin, which will help my ittle ovaries calm down and start working again, along with (possibly) progesterone to get aunt flo in gear. Because I am not breastfeeding, my period should not stay away for long. At that appointment, I will speak to her about when it is feasable for us to begin IUIs again. I know that there is a possibility that I could get pregnant right away, and I know that there is a possibility that I may not get pregnant for 2 more years. We just have to try try try. If I could have my wish, I would get pregnant again RIGHT AWAY. Some people may think that I am crazy, but here is my reasoning...
1. I want a sibling for Harris that is VERY CLOSE in age. I want this because I feel (from my own experience, as well as Mindi's) that siblings closer in age are more closely bonded during their childhood through adolesence.
2. I am really excited to give birth again. While I did not especially enjoy being pregnant, I LOVED the experience of giving birth- man, it was INCREDIBLE!!!
3. If Mindi and I decide that we want more than 2 kids, we will not be getting too old to have a whole whord of them... ;)
4. More tax deductions. No, that was just a joke ha ha.
And for your viewing pleasure, her is a little video of tummy time- yes, he makes noise! A lot of noise! Weeee!
ETA: YES WE ARE USING THE SAME DONOR
Tuesday, March 11, 2008
Sunday, March 9, 2008
Friday, March 7, 2008
Thursday, March 6, 2008
Monday, March 3, 2008
I have picked out some delicious new fabric and I am going to town on them today! I will let you know how they turn out... wheeee!
and the token boy picture...(cuz I take a million a day...)